092 - The Real Reason Your Relationship Keeps Breaking Down

Sep 14, 2026

He has counseled couples for over two decades. He sees his own counselor every single month. And in this conversation, he says something to a couple sitting across from him that leaves them completely stunned: "You love each other. But you stopped liking each other a long time ago." That sentence breaks something open. And this episode is full of moments just like it.

What We Cover in This Episode

• Why spiritual health is not just important, it is the foundation every other kind of health is built on

• How the enemy uses anxiety specifically against Christians and why most people never see it coming

• Why most people make their anxiety far bigger than it actually needs to be

• The mind, body, and spirit connection and what happens when one part falls out of sync

• Why even counselors need to see a counselor, and what that actually looks like

4 Practical Tools for Fighting Anxiety

• Tool 1: Get in the Word and put your anxiety in its proper place before the enemy does it for you

• Tool 2: Pray. Not a polished prayer. Just say "Lord, help me" and mean it.

• Tool 3: Do something physical. Burn the stress off before it burns you out.

• Tool 4: Have people around you who will name what they see and call it exactly what it is

The Hard Truth About Relationships

• Why most men were never taught how to actually be in a relationship, and why that matters

• The difference between loving someone and liking someone, and how couples quietly confuse the two

• Why men stop pursuing their wives the moment they say I do

• What a 60-year marriage actually looks like in practice: forgive, embrace, move on

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If you have been white-knuckling anxiety or sitting in a relationship that feels like two people who used to know each other, this episode will hand you the truth you have been needing.