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065 - Why Most Marriages Go Cold And Exactly How to Fix It

Mar 9, 2026

She's in her 80s. Her husband walks into the room. And she still gets butterflies. That's not luck, that's a decision they made every single day for decades. In this episode, we brought back a couple married 38 years to show you exactly how they did it.


What we cover in this episode:

• Why couples drift and the mindset shift that stops it

• The "root bound plant" problem most marriages fall into

• How perspective alone can reignite a dying spark

• Why social media is quietly destroying your view of marriage


How to build passion back:

• Daily gratitude: one thing you love about your spouse, every single day

• The Love Dare: a 40-day challenge that brings the fire back

• Regular date nights: why undistracted time together changes everything

• Doing "firsts" together and why new experiences create lasting intimacy

• The 20-second hug that releases oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin


The foundation that makes it all work:

• Praying together daily, couples who do this divorce at a rate of just 1%

• Living beneath your means so you can invest in experiences over things

• Choosing to never let the word "divorce" enter your vocabulary

• What it looks like to build a marriage that outlasts the honeymoon


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Your marriage is worth fighting for. The passion is still in there — this episode will help you find it again.